You're Actually In A Relationship With A Hobosexual If They Do These 7 Things

This isn't good news for you.

Love can be pretty blind.

You're in a new relationship, you've got butterflies in your stomach and you spend every waking minute thinking about that special someone. You want to be around them all the time, and maybe you're guilty of ditching your friends and family to hibernate at home and Netflix and chill with your new boo. Everything in your mind is perfect. 

After all, it's pretty normal to be a tad obsessive during the start of a new relationship, but sometimes when the desire to spend every moment together turns into actually spending every moment together - something way sinister might be at play. 

When your relationship starts moving at warp speed and not too long after that initial first date your new s/o is practically all moved in, beware. This is such a common occurrence, that there's a label for those who manipulate themselves into your life and space. 

The term hobosexual was coined by writer Nakita Nicci, and she describes a hobosexual as a person "who dates you with the sole interest of having a place to stay – not a genuine romantic interest.”

These people are serial daters and jump from home to home, just as quickly as they jump from relationship to relationship. This person will eat all your food, borrow money, have you always foot the bill, be emotionally manipulative - all while hanging out on your oh so comfy couch.

If and when you get frustrated with the emotional and financial abuse, this person finds themselves a similar set up with new partner. 

If you don't believe that this happens, the LA Times just released a podcast called Dirty John, which follows the story of Debra Newell, a successful interior designer who falls for John Meehan – the ultimate hobosexual – a handsome man who seems to check all the boxes: attentive, available and successful; only to have him slither his way into her heart and home, with deadly results.

Delays, bad weather, and baggage fees? @realdirtyjohn can help you pass the time. All episodes are streaming on @ApplePodcasts. http://apple.co/2xmrOaN 

— Dirty John (@realdirtyjohn)

Now if you're starting to feel uneasy, and that some of the above mentioned information is hitting close to home, here are 7 signs that your bae is actually a hobosexual, using you for your living space. 

 

 

1. Your relationship moves at warp speed

You've only gone out for coffee twice and maybe dinner once but this person is already pushing for more. Maybe they want to spend the night, become official right away, and get serious way before you've both even gotten a chance to really get to know one another. It could be a magic fit or something else - so stopping to take a minute and figure it out shouldn't bother your new boo. If it does this could be a major red flag. 

2. They have a key, drawer and are leaving personal items around your home - but you've never actually invited them to live with you.

Somehow, without your conscious permission or a discussion this person has found themselves in your space and has slowly moved all their personal belongings there. 

3. They've been down on their luck or in between jobs for forever.

They're in between jobs, thinking of going back to school, just taking a minute to 'figure it out'. Maybe before you, they were crashing at a friend's and before that it's a little hazy.

Which is all totally fine except it's been three months and this person hasn't actually done anything to improve their situation. They haven't printed resumes, they aren't going to interviews and they aren't looking for a place of their own. 

4. They've never been single.

When asking about their dating history, if they seem to have been in a string of relationships in a short amount of time, this could be a major red flag. It's totally normal to date around but if something sounds or feels fishy, take note. 

5. They have somehow forced you to make lifestyle changes that in no way benefit you.

You're expanding your home or purging things you love to create more space for them. You're turning your guest room into their office and you're shelling out for pet food and kids toys but you don't personally have a cat or a child in your life.  You've changed your lifestyle to fit them into it and they haven't done the same for you. 

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6. Everything just seems to good to be true

This person likes everything you like, believes everything you believe, hates everything you hate, and never disagrees with you. You're thinking that you're both just so “іn sync”, but ѕtор and take a step back.

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7. You've caught them telling you white lies

Yоu catch them telling lies or making contradictory statements. This doesn't just apply to you but also to other people they converse with. Fibbing, еxаggеrаtіng асhіеvеmеntѕ, оr contradicting themselves are a good sign that you should ѕtор аnd ѕtер back.

Shaky credibility and dishonestly isn't a great foundation for a relationship anyways. 

A Guy I Wasn't Officially Dating Cheated On Me And It Still Hurt Like Hell

I think we've all been here before. You really like someone, you're not seeing other people, but you haven't had 'the talk' yet. The talk that makes you guys official, even though in your head you already are. But the thoughts keep you up at night. Are they dating anyone else? I don't want to ask and come off as clingy. Are you just friends with benefits? And then you send yourself into a spiral of negative thoughts. This kind of relationship starts off unhealthy at the beginning, until both of you commit to each other. 

Well, at one point in my life, I was dumb and just assumed we weren't seeing other people. When it came to dating, I didn't really get upset, I didn't care that much if things ended, because I knew in the end I'd end up with the right person. I was swiping through Tinder one night and came across this guy. Let's call him John. That's not his real name, but if he's reading this, he'll know exactly who he is. John was that guy who was charming from the first conversation. A quick chat on Tinder turned into exchanging numbers, phone calls, FaceTime calls for hours, etc. While I was at work, I'd sneak into the back room and have multiple messages from him and the butterflies would come back. I really did like this guy. 

Not knowing if you're official with someone, but them talking about the future constantly with you, makes you very confused. John would talk about the future all the time, and again, the butterflies would come. He'd send me cute little texts throughout the day, we hardly went an hour without talking, and maybe I got too attached. But if we were always talking, then how did he have time to talk to other girls? 

The first kiss was how I imagined it would be. Like fireworks, or something even better than that. It was hard to imagine him hurting me, because he was truly becoming like a best friend. And not in the friendzone kind of way. Like, I want to be with him all the time, keep having inside jokes, etc. But as quick as things started, they faded. Well, I guess for him. I'd go back into the back room at work expecting my phone to be blown up like usual, instead he hadn't responded to my texts from hours ago. This never happened, but I assumed it was a coincidence. Then, all of our inside jokes started fading, and him only responding "lol" or "haha" when before it would take us 20 minutes to stop the joke. I knew something was up, and it truly made me feel sick. I remember going into the bathroom at work and crying because I know I didn't do anything wrong, but then again, something was wrong. 

It went on for days before I was finally fed up with how rude he was being to me. I called him out on it and said, "Listen. You've been acting weird the past week and I'm sick of it. Call me and tell me what's up or I'm done here". So I anxiously awaited his call, and like I suspected, there was someone else. To be honest, talking about this story still isn't easy. It's been a while since I last saw him, but he's still not out of my life. I'll get back to that in a little. 

He told me his ex-girlfriend, who had studied abroad and had come home, was back in his life and he was seeing where things were going with her. While I understood, I still wanted to reach through the phone and deck him. I don't know if I would have cared as much if he was just honest with me as soon as he knew things may start again with his ex, but alas, he didn't. He said he wasn't sure of what he wanted, but he'd "let me know". I straight up told him I'm not waiting around to be a second choice, so have a good life. I kept trying to justify it. Oh, he wasn't cheating on me with a random, just his ex. That's fine, right? There's a lot of history there. But I talked myself out of it because I realized from the beginning he had some flaws. 

From then on, I'd get drunk phone calls from him, he restarted the inside jokes and even when I wouldn't answer, I'd still get texts. It was like he was trying to taunt me and I can't say it wasn't working. He would tell me him and his ex were over, but he wasn't ready to date. I threatened to delete his number so many times, I even deleted him off of Facebook. But the funny thing is, he still found a way to message me. And I'd respond. Every time. 

I believe John is now engaged, which is funny because he still messages me on Facebook, likes my Instagram pictures, and even though I don't have his number, I'm sure he still has mine. I so badly want to message his fiancé and tell her all of this and also tell her good luck, but at the end of the day, that's just bad karma on my end. 

So. Were we ever official? I don't know. Do I care to ask him? Not one part of me. It obviously still makes my stomach drop when he likes my Instagram pictures, but then an eye roll comes right after it. I hope John is reading these, and if you are, hello. Our inside jokes are no longer funny to me, but good thing I've moved on. Just remember that no matter what the situation is, if you feel hurt, you have every right to feel hurt. No matter if you're official or not, have been dating for 5 years, or just have a crush on someone and find out they have a girlfriend. Heartbreak sucks and there is no outline for when you're allowed to feel sad.

6 Teeth Whitening Products That Are Cheap AF And Actually Work

Because you couldn't possibly cut coffee and red wine off cold turkey.

 

Niagara Falls' Winter Festival Of Lights Will Officially Open This November

Experience the magic.

Get ready for another year of dazzling lights and holiday cheer — Niagara Falls' award-winning Winter Festival of Lights is officially set to return this year, and it's going to be the most epic one yet.

Presented by Ontario Power Generation, the Winter Festival of Lights is Canada's largest illumination festival that takes you on an 8-km journey through a beautifully-decorated Niagara Falls. As many as 1.5 million people attend the festival every year and it's become an annual tradition for many Canadians across the country.

 

The installations, which combined consist of over 2 million lights, will be set up in the Niagara Parks, the Dufferin Islands and in some of the common tourist areas.

Giant displays including the iconic Zimmerman Fountain, 15 Canadian Wildlife displays, the world's largest Canadian-American flag, Noah's Ark, and over 50 colourful trees will make an appearance at the festival this year.

 

 

 

To make the experience even more magical, there will be several events taking place at the Falls during the festival. Guests can attend the opening ceremony at Queen Victoria Park, view the Falls' nightly Illumination, watch free laser light shows and fireworks by Fallsview Casino, go on a Deck the Falls Holiday Walking Tour, and much more.

It's perhaps the one time of year when you might not mind a little bit of snow to fall.

 

 

 

11 Cheap Travel Destinations For Canadians To Visit Instead Of The U.S.

No Trump zones.

Trump's recent attacks on Canada have inspired Canadians across the country to avoid travelling to the U.S. entirely.

The movement was started as way to protest Trump's unfair imposition of trade tariffs on Canadian aluminum and steel. It is an additional method of payback against the United States; on top the retaliatory tariffs already imposed by the Trudeau government on U.S. products and the nationwide anti-U.S. consumer boycott that is happening right now.

However, cutting off travel to the U.S. may pose a challenge, especially considering that it remains to be the most popular and affordable destination for Canadians. Domestic travel within Canada is also quite expensive, making it even harder to commit to the cause.

But it's definitely not impossible. There's still an entire world out there, with several amazing places to explore that are also advantageous for the Canadian dollar. While your money might not be going towards supporting Canadian tourism, you can take comfort in the fact that you will be helping places that are in actual need of financial assistance. Here are some affordable travel destinations other than the U.S. for passionate Canadians to consider:

Bahamas

If you're not a fan of massive crowds, consider a trip to the sunkissed Bahamas. The tropical country is known for its collection of low key beaches that are perfect for a private getaway. There are also places for the party animal, such as the capital city of Nassau which boasts an incredible beach nightlife. Flights range from CAD$400 to CAD$600, but you'll be able to save a lot if you opt for an all-inclusive vacation package instead (CAD$300).

 

Colombia

The bright, colourful country of Colombia is one massive ongoing party. It hosts the annual Carnival, the largest festival in all of South America. Flights throughout the year are around CAD$600 and under and you can get hotel rooms for just CAD$70 a night.

 

Costa Rica

Costa Rica is a favourite among Canadian snowbirds in particular. Many Canadians travel there during the winter to enjoy the country's beautiful weather and white sand beaches. Another plus is that it's one of the safest countries in Central America to travel to. In fact, it's often referred to as the "Switzerland of the Americas" for its safety rating.

 

Cuba

Canadians should take advantage of Cuba's all-inclusive vacation packages, which will send them on an amazing tropical getaway for really cheap. Several airlines sell flights for CAD$400 or less throughout the year, and depending on where you look, you could land yourself a luxury hotel room for less than CAD$200 a night.

Dominican Republic

Like Cuba and Mexico, the Dominican Republic is an affordable vacation spot especially if you opt for an all-inclusive vacation package. Sometimes you'll be able to land flights and a week-long stay at a top-rated beach resort for just a little over CAD$800.

 

Guatemala

Guatemala is a great choice for those seeking a fun, cultural experience. The country is brimming with Mayan culture and natural beauty, and the weather is almost always perfect. Flights can be a little pricey at around CAD$600, but the country makes up for it in lodging that can cost less than CAD$100 a night.

 

Mexico

After the U.S., Mexico is the most popular destination among Canadians. Well-known beach spots like Cancun, Puerto Vallarta and Tulum give Canadians a variety of exciting tropical options to choose from. Flights to Mexico typically cost around CAD$400, but there are also several all-inclusive vacation packages that may give you a better bang for you buck.

 

Panama

Panama is gaining popularity as a travel destination among Canadians for its hot weather, favourable taxes, cheap lifestyle and close proximity to Canada. Flights range around CAD$500, but if you book at the right time, you may land a deal for much less than that. Hotels there are cheap too — several hotels go for less than CAD$100 a night.

 

Thailand

Thailand is one of the cheapest places in Asia to visit. Other than the flights, everything is extremely affordable, from the hotels to the food. There are also a lot of incredible places to explore, including pristine beaches, tropical islands and exotic small towns.

 

UK

It may not seem like it, but the UK is actually a pretty affordable place for Canadians to visit. With the launch of new ultra-low-cost airlines like Swoop and Primera Air, you'll be able to catch flights to cities like London for as low as CAD$199. Hotels there are affordable too — some go for as little as CAD$100 a night.

This Newly Proposed U.S. Law Will Affect Some Canadians Who Vacation In Florida

But in a good way.

In light of the #BoycottUSA movement started by Canadians in response to Trump's 'illegal' tariffs, several U.S. states that rely heavily on Canadian tourism are worried about the possible effect of such boycott on their economies.

Florida, in particular, is working on increasing its appeal to Canadian travellers with a new bill that would give them more flexibility when vacationing in the state. U.S. senators Marco Rubio and Bill Nelson are co-sponsoring a bill that would allow Canadians to vacation in Florida for eight months a year, instead of six.

“It’s no secret that Canadians love to visit Florida in the winter,” said Nelson. “The millions of Canadian snowbirds who visit our state each year play an important role in our state’s tourism-driven economy. Allowing them to stay even longer is a win for them and for the local economies they visit.” 

It may seem like a farce, but this is a real bill. They're even calling it the 'Canadian Snowbirds Act.' If passed as law, Canadians who are over 50 and either own or rent a residence in the U.S. will be allowed to remain in the country for 240 days a year, instead of 183. The bill, however, also explicitly states that Canadians vacationing under the proposed law will not be able to work for American employers or seek public assistance.

It makes sense that Florida is trying to entice this particular demographic because they contribute upwards of $4 billion to the state's economy annually, according to the Canadian embassy.

Current immigration laws consider Canadians who vacation in the U.S. for more than six months as U.S. residents for tax purposes. They are required to pay U.S. federal income taxes on all income they earn that year, no matter which country that income was earned in. 

 

"I don’t see the upside for Canadians looking to volunteer in droves to linger here during the mean season, says Frank Cerabino, a writer for Palm Beach Post. "They still won’t be allowed to work or collect public assistance." 

"That explains why we’re only looking for Canadians who are over 50. I’ll admit, you’ve got to watch out for those younger Canadians, if there is such a thing. (I’ve lived here for four decades and I’ve yet to see a Canadian under the age of 50.)" 

The Canadian Snowbird Association supports the bill, and is hoping it will help benefit Canadian snowbirds who make the trip to the Sunshine State every winter.

14 Surreal Places In Pennsylvania You Won't Believe Exist

Pennsylvania is full of places you'd expect to see only in dreams

 As one of the first colonized states, it's really no wonder that Pennsylvania is full of surprising locations. Some are publicly accessible while others are hidden away, regardless, people seem to stumble upon them anyways. 

From abandoned towns that inspired horror films to some charming castles that look like they were plucked straight out of a fairytale, there's no shortage of cool places to check out. So get your map out because you're going to want to mark all these must-see surreal locations in Pennsylvania.

Where: Centralia, PA

Home to the infamous "Graffiti Highway," Centralia is perhaps one of the coolest hidden gems in Pennsylvania. The history of this now-nearly abandoned town is quite interesting — so interesting that the producers of the Silent Hill series were inspired by it. 

 

Sound familiar? To anyone who has seen the Silent Hill films, the whole "underground mine fire" should ring a bell. While Silent Hill is obviously fictional, its story was based on the underground mine fire that has  — and continues to — create chaos in Centralia. Occasionally on cooler days, you can still see smoke rising out of some spots in the ground — much like the foggy atmosphere in Silent Hill.

 

The mine fire has been burning under the town since the early 1960s, caused by what is suspected to be a deliberate burning of trash in a former strip mine. This poor decision ignited a coal seam fire that is still very much alive today and has enough fuel to continue to burn for the next 250 years. 

 

In fact, as an attempt to deter curious people like you and me, many of the town's buildings have been demolished. The very few buildings left are still lived in by the brave people who refused to leave. 

 

Big Spring

Where: Forbes State Forest

6 Addicting Netflix Shows To Binge Watch This Long Weekend

These are the Netflix Canada shows you need in your life this weekend.

 

We don't need to remind you that this weekend is Labour Day, a.k.a. an extended opportunity for you to stay out late, sleep even later,  and most importantly, catch up on all those amazing Netflix shows you don't have time to watch.

From new releases to hidden gems and award-winning series, these are the shows you need to binge while you're curled up in PJs this long weekend. Now's the time to stop rewatching "The Office" for the tenth time and finally try something new - trust us, you won't regret it.

I Am A Killer

IMDb Rating: 7.6/10

This documentary series is Netflix's latest co-production with A&E and it'll absolutely blow your mind. Each hour-long episode profiles a different inmate who has been charged with the death penalty or life in prison for capital murder. Plus, the plot twists will leave you stunned, especially because every detail actually happened in real life.  It's truly unlike any prison documentary series you've ever seen.

Disenchantment

 

IMDb Rating: 7.4/10
Rotten Tomatoes: 57% liked it

If you love "The Simpsons" and "Futurama," you'll love "Disenchantment." Created by the same cartoonist, this comedy is set in a medieval world. The lead character is an alcoholic princess voiced by Abbi from "Broad City," so you know it's going to be hilarious AF. You'll breeze through the entire first season so quickly, making it the perfect choice for long weekend binge-watching.

Gypsy

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IMDb Rating: 7.6/10
Rotten Tomatoes: 36% liked it

Sadly, this show only has one season. But, don't be fooled by the Rotten Tomatoes rating - it's arguably one of the most intense and addicting psychological thrillers on Netflix. Naomi Watts plays a therapist who gets way too involved in her patient's lives, pursuing wildly inappropriate fantasies of being intimately connected to them. All while keeping everything a secret from her husband. You won't even realize that you're holding your breath during some of the cliffhangers.

Lie To Me

IMDb Rating: 8/10
Rotten Tomatoes: 

"Lie To Me" is a crime drama series that'll have you questioning everything and everyone around you. It follows the world's leading expert in detecting lies, who helps law enforcement and the government determine whether or not an individual is guilty based on their expressions, movements and gestures. It's a super fast-paced show and the intensity never stops building. You won't even realize you're three seasons deep until Monday night rolls around.

Atypical

IMDb Rating: 8.3/10
Rotten Tomatoes: 77%

This show got great reviews for a reason. It follows a teenage boy on the autism spectrum who's ready to date and find love. He's determined to grow up, and is forced to confront the reality of what it means to be "normal." He's such a lovable character and you'll find yourself laughing and crying with him through all his triumphs and mishaps. It's funny, sweet and so real.

Freaks And Geeks

 IMDb Rating: 8.9/10

Rotten Tomatoes: 100%

The ratings for this 1980s-era teen comedy speak for themselves. If you haven't seen this show, cancel your weekend plans and watch it ASAP. You'll definitely recognize a handful of faces in the cast, looking much younger than they do today. The show follows a group of teen misfits stumbling their way through high school and adolescent life, all with a 1980s, middle-USA backdrop. The show was cancelled after one season, and there petitions to this day to bring it back.

 

This Boozy Big Bowl Rainbow Sherbet Punch Will Have You On The Floor Drunk AF

It's berry, berry good.

 

So you've seen our watermelon jello shots, unicorn shots, and even our gin and tonic popsicles, and while they're freaking AMAZING (you should defs try if you haven't already) you might feel that they're too much work.

We know you're lazy AF. So are we (lol). So we have the fix! This boozy big bowl punch is the easiest sh*t to make and it's freaking delicious. It's fruity, sweet, bubbly, and most importantly, it's alcoholic.

Skip having to wait for your jello shots to set overnight, you can make this boozy sherbet frappe punch right away...in fact as soon as you make it, we recommend that you serve it ASAP. Perfect for the impatient and lazy drinker. Cheers to a lazy summer!

INGREDIENTS

• 2 cups pineapple juice
• 1 can limeade concentrate, thawed
• 1 can pink lemonade concentrate, thawed
• 5 cups lemon lme soda
• 1/2 - 3/4 cups confectioner's sugar
• 1/2 cup Smirnoff Raspberry
• 1/2 cup raspberries
• 1/2 pineapple chunks
• 1/2 strawberry slices
• 8-10 scoops rainbow sherbet

Serves 10-12 people

PREPARATION

1. In a large punch bowl, add pineapple juice, limeade, and pink lemonade. Whisk all together until any frozen chunks are slushy. 

2. Stir in lemon lime soda and confectioner's sugar until all the sugar is completely dissolved.

3. Add the fresh fruit and scoop in the rainbow sherbet and it's ready to be served!! Easy right?

Original recipe found on Grandbaby Cakes

These Boozy Frozen Peppermint Hot Chocolates Will Get You Drunk AF For The Holidays

Perfect for Christmas!

 

This frozen peppermint hot chocolate is the perfect way to get lit at your family Christmas party this holiday season. If you want to seriously impress your friends and family, whip together this crazy delicious boozy hot cocoa in record time. You can literally make these #instaworthy drinks in five minutes.

This impressive frozen treat is the perfect balance of sweetness. Not overly sweet, but the perfect amount that you'll be sipping these twisted hot cocoas all night long. The recipe doesn't call for liquor, but I think we can all agree that liquor only ever improves a recipe. So I've taken the liberty of modifying the original recipe so we can make it Irish this Christmas. 😏

Okay, let's get mixing! 

INGREDIENTS:

• Crushed Candy Canes 
• 50 g Melted White Chocolate (+ extra for decorating the glass)
• 3 tbsp Warm Milk
• 2 cups Candy Cane Ice Cream (or Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream)
• 1/2 cup Cold Milk
• 2 oz Baileys Original Irish Cream
• Whipped Cream
• Whole Candy Canes
• Festive Straws

Makes 2 servings.

INSTRUCTIONS:

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1. Decorate the glasses by drizzling the extra melted white chocolate onto the inside of 2 chilled glasses. Dip the rims into melted chocolate as well, and immediately dip into crushed candy canes.

2. In a small bowl, combine the rest of your melted white chocolate and warm milk.

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3. Add this mixture to a blender along with your ice cream, Baileys and cold milk.

4. Blend until smooth.

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5. Pour into the glasses and top with whipped cream and extra crushed candy canes.

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6. Garnish with a full candy cane and festive straw!

Enjoy!

Original recipe by Pankobunny.